During the stress of a busy time of year, it can be hard to slow down and let that special someone know you’re grateful for them. Here are a few tips for busy parents to make time for each other this holiday season. According to Dr. Kat Van Kirk, a licensed marriage and sex therapist and resident sex expert for Adam & Eve:
1. Become opportunists when it comes to sex. Decide to prioritize it by getting it in whenever you can, be it in the shower or under the sheets before your kids raid your bed in the morning. Sometimes focusing on a little quantity will improve the quality of your sex.
2. Remove the expectation of orgasm each time you have sex. Learning to focus on sensation and enjoying the multitude of benefits from sex can help you build arousal and not be focused on “getting it done.”
3. Do something (anything) different. Research by the Gottman Institute suggests that those sexual relationships that maintain spontaneity in their relationships last longer with higher levels of satisfaction. Learning to be spontaneous can involve small changes that have a big payoff: Have sex on the other side of the bed or a quick hand job in the car while you’re in the garage.
Add some fun toys to the mix. For both of you! Here are some items that Jason will be happy are in his Stocking this year! Christmas Night is going to be a fun one!
Adam & Eve Easy 'O' Jelly Realistic Vibe
Made from soft and flexible TPE jelly, this 8.5” vibe’s realistic shape and ultra-flexible shaft know just how to please. Soft and supple veins and a raised head massage deeply with each thrust. Twist the base to feel the shaft buzz with multi-speed vibrations from a low rumble to an erotic high. Great for beginners and experts alike!
Adam & Eve Love Bud Play Set
Intimate playtime never felt so good! Adam & Eve’s Love Bud Play Set comes complete with everything a woman needs to make her sweet spots sing. A powerful vibrating bullet activates with the touch of a button. Slide on one of 5 unique sleeves to transform it into a totally different toy! Feel every caress in silky-smooth silicone. Great for beginners!